(Closed) feeling insecure

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Impatiently waiting: I think it can be hard; I know last year I kept asking when it was going to happen and then let it go for a few months…now its almost coming up (my SO really likes the surprise thing) and there have been serious talks about a ring and what not. I think Mr. Bee’s plan works well, and you have to remember to be positive and keep your chin up. Focus on you for a while and work on making yourself feel better.- Trust me, it works!

Post # 4
1844 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  I agree, I think we start doubting what they say, because we think it will protect us. I went through this a lot last year, I would doubt that it was going to happen. Even though my now Fiance promised that it would be by the end of Summer 2010, and even though he has never broken a promise to me, I just felt like it wasn’t going to happen.

  I agree with the Mr. Bee plan. Do whatever you can to keep busy and try not to think about it. If your SO said that it would happen within six months, it will happen :-). Enjoy waiting! My recommendation…start putting away some money, if you haven’t already. I wish I would have saved a little more!

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