(Closed) Feeling like a dope: She had thoughtful and good intentions

posted 6 years ago in Decor
Post # 4
1796 posts
Buzzing bee

I sympathize with you babe. Its YOUR wedding, and you obviously have your own idea of what you want. She was the one who went out and spent god knows how much on those flowers without consulting you, it is not your fault. If she said before “Im going to buy flowers for your wedding now….blah blah” and you didn’t tell her not too, or if you didn’t change your mind, it is not your fault. Its your wedding, your day, your way, remember that.

Post # 5
4415 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Ohhhhh…  Mom’s are wonderful, aren’t they?  All they want to do is make us happy, and sometimes we forget that. Fortunately, moms love us even when we are dopes.  Don’t let it bother you too much. She probably feels like a dope herself for not realizing about the flowers. All she wants is to be involved.

I’ve had things like this happen with mom so many times, even when I wasn’t planning my wedding. I can’t even count the number of times! 

Post # 7
451 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That’s cute!  Mom’s can be so adorable and so infuriating!

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