Post # 1
Hi Wedding Bees,
I love reading things on these boards and reading all the blog post. I am getting married in 2 weeks. This past weekend was the first time I had some time to just sit with myself. I have just felt really lonely and disconnected. I am not sure if it is a combination of my friend group changing, getting married, or that I have been so busy that when I am idling I feel lonely. It is like I know I have a lot to be happy about, surrounded by good friends and have a great husband to be…but the way I feel is different then the facts. Is this what people talk about post-wedding blues?
Did any other brides feel this way before they got married? What did you do?
Post # 3
I feel isolated sometimes from all the pressure and planning, but I could do with some loneliness. I don’t feel as though I have any time to myself, and I’m someone who needs a lot of time alone.
Post # 4
I have a feeling I *will* feel that way soon. I have 4 weeks left of school which are jammed packed and then 4 weeks of absolutely NOTHING. Fiance will be at work, friends all work during the days and my DIY’s are pretty much done.
Sometimes when we get downtime after being so busy, it’s hard to remember what it’s like to be on our own without being lonely.
Post # 5
Thanks Takemyhand and Professorgirl!
I think maybe you are right that all the pressure of planning and forgot what it is like to be alone.
My fiance is working long hours before our wedding planning a conference but will be done in 4 days. Hopefully when I fly back to California and not planning my wedding from a far it will be nice.