Feeling neglected my MoH – unintended fight

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
104 posts
Blushing bee

she is probably annoyed that you are bringing your fiance everywhere with you. it makes sense–especially because she’s visiting from somewhere else. I guess I would be annoyed in her shoes too. If I were to visit a friend and she took her boyfriend/fiance with her everywhere I wouldn’t want to see her. I mean, you can see your fiance every single day, but how often do you get to spend time with your MOH? Why does the fiance need to be there?

It sounds like a chain of little things building up to a bad weekend :

Post # 5
3084 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@CrazyCatLady13:  it sounds like your MoH is being a little rude. She should have told you about those plans beforehand. Not while she was there. 

Post # 6
42101 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Sounds like both of you were a little unclear in your expectations. She can’t read your mind and vice versa. Next time, spell it out for each other.

Post # 7
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Smithfield Center

Defintely a ton of miscommunication I think!

But just to clarify, when I went to visit one of my bridesmaids (I wasn’t engaged at the time but she was) her then-FI was almost always around and when he wasn’t she just seemed disinterested in everything. Maybe your MOH expected to have some just you two time. You get to see your FI all the time – you don’t get to see her as often.

Post # 8
382 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

i get you and fi live together,but if i came to spend the weekend with you i would not want your fi hanging around with us the whole time.i get you and fi are a unit,but you are still your own person.

when my friend comes to spend the weekend with me,my husband does hang out with us a little bit,but then he goes in his room to watch tv,play on computer or whatever so me and my friend can hang out,watch girly movies ect..we even go out to the mall,eat ect without my husband.my husband dont wanna hang out with us girls anyway lol

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