Feeling nervous about the big day…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
4043 posts
Honey bee

@BunnyBun:  First, breath. While anxiety is normal for many brides, it seems like you are extremely doubtful and maybe not ready for marriage at this time…which is ok.

Honestly, I didn’t freak out or panic at all before my wedding (other than my weather concerns). We had been together for 10 years and I was ready. Do I take my vows seriously. Yes. But if it doesn’t work out for some reason, it isn’t the end of the world or the end of my life. When you put so much pressure on things, it makes it more stressful and less enjoyable. 

Perhaps sit down with you’re FI and discuss your concerns BEFORE the wedding. 

Post # 4
Hostess
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I think everyone feels anxious before the wedding. You didn’t list any specific fears about your FI though. Are you worried about a specific trait or aspect of your relationship? 

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