Feeling obligated to a Wedding Planner I didn't even contact

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
Member
599 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I would just email her back and say “thank you so much for your offer. However, we’ve gone a different route.”

Super easy. You owe this person nothing.

Post # 4
Member
1235 posts
Bumble bee

Just say no!  Haha!!  But for real.

Post # 5
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45263 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

cc1213:  “Our plans have changed. We wil not be requiring your services.”

Post # 6
Member
4905 posts
Honey bee

cc1213:  Definitely agree with what the first PP said.  Also talk to your friend about boundaries.  She really overstepped them.  What if you had said no to the planner because she may have been too expensive not becuase she wasn’t experienced enough?  Your friend shouldn’t have given your information out.  

Post # 7
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354 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Before our planner started emailing us with ideas we had to sit down with her, discuss her services, and complete her contract. This is standard practice. The fact that this planner is being so forward to you without your interest screams unprofessionalism. Not a good sign…..

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