- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
Is anyone else out there a NON-DANCER?
I REALLY DO NOT LIKE DANCING unless it is secret dancing in my room or in situations where no one will notice you dancing (e.g. in a dance-class setting where everyone is bad and only learning)!!!!!
The thought of everyone watching me and FI slow-dance at my wedding exasperates me… (We love to have fun with each other and all but we are both non-dancers)…
And the thought of dancing with my dad makes me feel even *more* uncomfortable…
BUT I KNOW that everyone at the wedding is going to expect dancing!!!
We have a small guestlist (80 ish) and a day-time luncheon wedding so that means there’s no chance of “blending in with the crowd” on the dance floor.
I have mentioned my irrational fear to my FI but we have yet to talk about it seriously lol. I think he is kind of indifferent about it.
So…. I’d love some support from any other shy non-dancers on the bee if there are any, LOL
AND here’s my question
Did anyone NOT have dancing at their wedding, and how did it go? Did you replace it with another activity e.g. games or something else? Was it lame? Was it fun? Were your guests happy?