Feeling real frustrated

posted 3 years ago in Wellness
Post # 3
3618 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@seema1234:  Why do you feel like people are laughing? What about your clothes are uncomfortable? Has something recently happened to make you feel this way?

Post # 5
1952 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@seema1234:  If people are mocking you and laughing at you, let them. You’re perfectly fine the way you are. Don’t let it get to you.

Post # 7
1715 posts
Bumble bee

I understand why you’re self conscious. I don’t think you have all that much to worry about when it comes to this, though. 

From my experience, people don’t think badly of small women who have babies. They may look at them, but not in a mean way and not for long. They don’t usually think bad things about the woman either.  

Even if they did, however, that is not something that you should trouble yourself with. You are a 27 year old woman, not a child. If they can’t see that, that’s their problem. They should realize how old you really are if they have to interact with you in some way. 

If you have to adjust your clothing a bit so that it’s easier to see that you’re 27, go ahead and do it; sometimes it’s necessary to do things like that. If you have to make it clear to someone how old you really are, go ahead and do that. You may be small, but you’re still a woman and mother. If someone treats you poorly because of your small size, they are in the wrong, not you. 

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