(Closed) Feeling Regret

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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442 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Many Hugs. We have no control over Mother Nature; I have seen some gorgeous wedding photos taken in the rain. I suggest you and Joe go take a photo under the weeping willow because that is what you really wanted.

In regards to your mother, I would highly recommend you tell her how you feel, even if she doesn’t want to hear it because you don’t want to carry those feelings around. We learn from our parents, if you ever have a daughter I’m sure you will be front and center on her special day.

Post # 4
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2090 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

You are certainly justified to feel disappointed in your mom – she sounds like a very selfish person, and I am sorry that she treated you so badly. I can’t offer you any words of advice, except to say that we don’t always get the parents we deserve, and that some people never grow up. Some people will always need to be the center of attention. So, here’s some hugs!!

Also – what about if you guys contacted your photographer and the venue, and do a “do over” next summer, for a weekend where the weather is great. Since you wouldn’t need the place for more than an hour or two, you could probably pick out 2 weekends, and go with the one with the best weather. Get your dress cleaned, get your hair/makeup done, and get the pictures under the willow tree. Or, wear something else and have pictures taken as a 1 year anniversary gift to yourselves. Then you will have your weeping willow pictures (which sound LOVELY, btw!). Then, take yourselves out to dinner after!!! 🙂

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