(Closed) Feeling Sad about Bachelorette

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2011

πŸ™ I only had 4 people show up for my party and it was great. I wanted more there… but it was so laid back, no drama, no worries. It was awesome.

I hope you have a great time!!

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

im sure it will still be fun! i ended up not even having one…we just had a little get together thursday night before the wedding with friends and whoever could make it in town early. It wasnt a huge group but still tons of fun!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

is it out of town?  i know i usually cant afford to go to big out of town bachelorettes, but that certainly doesnt mean i dont want to be there!  try not to be hurt, i tend to think smaller gatherings with fewer people are more intimate and personal anyways.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

The ones who will be there are there help you celebrate look at that way.  πŸ™‚

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I felt the same way – there’s going to be 5 at mine.  But you know what, it makes it more intimate and you can interact more with each of those girls that come.  Have fun!!

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@sparkles_10: I know how you feel. am worried as well. Its so hard picking what weekend to have it. We originally planned for the Saturday two weeks before the wedding and then my fiance and I got invitations to to a party and a shower for the same weekend. I can’t change it to three weeks before the wedding because its Easter weekend and one week before the wedding is Mothers Day! We haven’t sent invitations out so having it four weeks from the wedding would be only two weeks from now! Also, I know my one sister is going on vacation that weekend. Now I guess we are back to the original date and we’ll have to miss the party and shower we were invited to. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I had a bachelorette party of two—-my MOH and I.  I absolutely did not want a “party.”  Though this is not an option for most people, we went to an all-inclusive resort in Cabo for a week.  Since it was September, the cost was very affordable.

My point is this…..”turns out not where, but who you’re with that really matters.”  And one close friend was more precious than a dozen acquaintences.

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@gvsusara: this is so true! I just wish my sister/MOH could come. She only lives three hours away in D.C. but she says she has to work. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m having a spa day w/ less than 10 ppl.  Primarily it will be my sisters and a couple of close girlfriends.  I wanted something more chill.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If it makes you feel better, I didn’t have one because no one could get it together.  I had a spa day by myself to get waxed and mani/pedi.

My shower was really pathetic too.

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

dont feel bad..im not having one…a bridal shower yes but im not able to invite my own friends since my FI’s sisters and mom are throwing it so …cheer up it could be worst…

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