- 5 years ago
I love my boyfriend, we have been together for a year and a half. We both have children from previous relationships (marriages). The problem is that although he has been separated from his wife and in the process of divorce (as in filed) for two and a half years she will not sign the papers. This has created soo much stress in our lives. She has been living with her boyfriend staring 3 weeks after the divorce stuff started. Everything is a problem with her; we cannot do anything with the children without her putting in her complaint or trying to control it. We were going to take the children on vacation for Thanksgiving, but she freaked out… They are not divorced there is currently a temporary time sharing order. They have signed a new parenting plan and it has been submitted to the court, not signed by the judge. When she found out her child support was going down based on the time sharing she refused to sign the divorce or use the new parenting plan until it is signed by the judge. Guess what.. now she is pregnant! She has been accusing me of being pregnant for months and that I am neglectful and so is their father, she tells the children that we are both bad people. I have never met with woman face to face, nor do I wish to. Both my boyfriend and I have jobs that require security clearance that is in jeopardy if she keeps making these types of accusations. I hate her. I don’t understand how a person can be so rotten and manipulative to her children. I have never experienced anything like this, my ex and I have a pretty good working relationship and his new girlfriend is wonderful both to him and my child. Worst part is… in our state my boyfriend is the legal father to this child because they are not divorced. Just typing this makes me feel like I should be on Jerry Springer. I feel so stupid.