feeling super down after wedding ceremony – what's wrong with me?

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Is this normal? No.

Why are you friends with someone who admonishes you for cutting your hair and tells you you’ll look ugly? She sounds like a crazy person and a terrible bridesmaid.

Regarding evetything else, it sounds like everyone is walking all over you. What about what you want? Forget the wedding, what about in day-to-day life? You need to learn to be assertive and speak up for yourself, or otherwise accept that things won’t be how you like them.

Sure, you’re lucky to have people who love and care for you, but part of loving and caring for you should be listening to your preferences and either following through or reaching a compromise with you.

Sometimes the hardest thing is to stand up to the people you love, but it’s a normal and essential part of life. Best of luck for the future x

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