Post # 1
I had my wedding planned for years…much like many little girls. Now that the actual planning is happening, instead of feeling happy and light – I am losing sleep becuase nothing is going the way I thought it would. So sad. Do other people go through this too? I just feel like I was an idiot for so many years…but shouldnt it be about the bride? Why shouldnt one get the wedding one wants?
Post # 3
i feel like a lot of things aren’t going to plan or the way i’ve envisioned and i’m finding the whole process kind of a downer instead of exciting and fun.
Post # 4
Yes, I think we’ve all been through this to some extent. You really have to learn to just let it go, come to accept that things WILL go wrong on the day of the wedding, and just keep your eye on the prize! 🙂
Post # 5
Between budgets, familial/cultural expectations, and fantasy crashing head-on with reality–not to mention undergoing an enormous life transition–I think it’s one hundred percent normal to feel this way. You’re not alone, and you’re most definitely not an “idiot.” You’re a human under a lot of pressure.
It’s not all sunshine, but I hope you find many, many rays of joy throughout this process.