Post # 1
I was just reading some infidelity stats and it got me wondering if any Bees have cheated. Vote in the poll. It’s anonymous.
PLEASE read all the responses before voting so you choose the right ones! Only choose the “emotional cheating” option if there was only emotional cheating and NOTHING else.
Post # 3
You should make it so you can choose more than one option. 🙂
Post # 4
@bunnyharriet: Did you want this poll to be something where you can enter multiple options? ie I did or did not cheat AND i did or did not tell, etc? It’s only letting you choose one so you might want to edit 🙂
Post # 5
kissed someone once while in a previous relationship, but I wasn’t married.
Post # 6
Oops! I changed it.Thanks for the heads up.
Post # 7
Never… I find it morally disturbing.
Post # 8
No, I have never cheated. I came very close to wanting to cheat when I was with my ex-FI (weren’t engaged at that point – in hindsight, this event was what SHOULD have led to a breakup, not an engagement), but that person I’m sure did not share my feelings and nothing happened besides a few beers and some conversation.
I’ve been presented with several opportunities to cheat while in my current relationship, but I would never ever cheat on my SO – nor would I want to.
Post # 10
I do too. But I have cheated in the past and I feel very sorry for it. I kissed someone else while with my ex. It broke us up because I confessed to it. Looking back, that ex was a jerk, but I threw everything away over a peck on the lips. DUMB da Dumb dumb Dumbbbb!
Post # 11
I have never cheated on anyone, though I have had some exes cheat on me… which really made me eat a lot of chocolate ice cream and krispy creme donuts ;s
Post # 12
Immediately prior (within days, emotionally and physically we were already broken up, the words just hadn’t been said yet) to a breakup with my ex, I cheated on him with my now Darling Husband. Whoops. Didn’t go far with him, just kiss, but felt I needed to officially end it with guy 1 first. Not proud of it. Will never do it again.
Post # 13
It looks like it’s hard to confess even when it’s anonymous!
Post # 14
No, but I almost did once.
I started dating Darling Husband in high school. We broke up for a semester in college and dated other people, but I never fell out of love with him. We spoke about maybe getting back together when I had been dating someone else for a couple months, and I decided to break up with the other guy in order to get back with now-DH. The problem is he was traveling, so I had to wait a week before I could see him in person and I thought he deserved to be broken up with in person. That week was rough, but Darling Husband and I knew we had to wait until I ended the other relationship to have sex.
I feel like it might have constituted emotional cheating a bit because I was in love with Darling Husband the whole time I dated this other guy, but at the time I thought that’s how I could move on. The whole thing makes me feel a bit guilty even though I didn’t physically cheat because I don’t feel like I really ever gave the relationship with this guy 100%.
Post # 16
- Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House
I have never cheated, and hopefully never will. My fi kissed another girl while we were dating once though. It was about 6 months into our relationship when he first went to college.