(Closed) Fess Up Bees. Have you cheated?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Have you cheated? Check all that apply.
    Yes, I cheated emotionally on a past spouse. : (71 votes)
    11 %
    Yes, I kissed someone else while with a past spouse. : (89 votes)
    14 %
    Yes, I gave/received oral sex to/from someone else while in a past relationship. : (69 votes)
    11 %
    Yes, I had sex with someone else while in a past relationship. : (132 votes)
    21 %
    Yes, I cheated emotionally on my current spouse. : (50 votes)
    8 %
    Yes, I kissed someone else while with my current spouse. : (56 votes)
    9 %
    Yes, I engaged in oral sex with someone else while with my current spouse. : (26 votes)
    4 %
    Yes, I had sex with someone else while with my current spouse. : (51 votes)
    8 %
    I never told my Ex that I cheated. : (78 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 3
    527 posts
    Busy bee

    You should make it so you can choose more than one option.  🙂

    Post # 4
    5663 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    @bunnyharriet:  Did you want this poll to be something where you can enter multiple options? ie I did or did not cheat AND i did or did not tell, etc? It’s only letting you choose one so you might want to edit 🙂

    Post # 5
    3769 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    kissed someone once while in a previous relationship, but I wasn’t married.

    Post # 7
    410 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    Never… I find it morally disturbing.

    Post # 8
    2759 posts
    Sugar bee

    No, I have never cheated. I came very close to wanting to cheat when I was with my ex-FI (weren’t engaged at that point – in hindsight, this event was what SHOULD have led to a breakup, not an engagement), but that person I’m sure did not share my feelings and nothing happened besides a few beers and some conversation.

    I’ve been presented with several opportunities to cheat while in my current relationship, but I would never ever cheat on my SO – nor would I want to.

    Post # 9
    4275 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012


    Post # 11
    65 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I have never cheated on anyone, though I have had some exes cheat on me… which really made me eat a lot of chocolate ice cream and krispy creme donuts ;s

    Post # 12
    5109 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Immediately prior (within days, emotionally and physically we were already broken up, the words just hadn’t been said yet) to a breakup with my ex, I cheated on him with my now Darling Husband. Whoops. Didn’t go far with him, just kiss, but felt I needed to officially end it with guy 1 first. Not proud of it. Will never do it again.

    Post # 14
    1358 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    No, but I almost did once.

    I started dating Darling Husband in high school. We broke up for a semester in college and dated other people, but I never fell out of love with him. We spoke about maybe getting back together when I had been dating someone else for a couple months, and I decided to break up with the other guy in order to get back with now-DH. The problem is he was traveling, so I had to wait a week before I could see him in person and I thought he deserved to be broken up with in person. That week was rough, but Darling Husband and I knew we had to wait until I ended the other relationship to have sex.

    I feel like it might have constituted emotional cheating a bit because I was in love with Darling Husband the whole time I dated this other guy, but at the time I thought that’s how I could move on. The whole thing makes me feel a bit guilty even though I didn’t physically cheat because I don’t feel like I really ever gave the relationship with this guy 100%.

    Post # 15
    1850 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2015


    Post # 16
    6207 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    I have never cheated, and hopefully never will.  My fi kissed another girl while we were dating once though. It was about 6 months into our relationship when he first went to college.

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