Post # 1
My FFIL passed away on Thursday. My FI found him peacefully sleeping at his house after he wouldn’t answer multiple phone calls. What a nightmare it has been with the holidays. My FI is devistated as well as his brother and mom. FFIL & FMIL were getting a divorce and so there was already tension in the family but this just made everything so much more real. Now we won’t have his father at our wedding and my heart breaks for him. My FI’s brother also just got engaged and is planning their wedding which is 2 months after ours. What a horrible time to leave us all. In the middle of Christmas and while planning his sons weddings. It is so sad and I can not believe it is really happening.
Post # 3
I am so sorry to hear this 🙁
Post # 4
omg i am so sorry for you, i am so sad *hug*
Post # 5
Very, very sorry. My thoughts to you and your families. Hugs.
Post # 6
@countrylove: i am so sorry to here about this. it sounds like it was a shock to everyone.
just remember that your ffil may not be at your wedding in body but he will be there in spirit, watching over you both.
Post # 7
@countrylove: So devastating. Do they know what the cause of death was? Sorry for your loss. Hugs!
Post # 8
My thoughts are with you and the family. Take care.
Post # 9
I am praying for you and your families! I am so sorry!
Post # 10
So sorry to hear this! FI’s dad passed away around this time 2 years ago and it was such a hard thing to watch him go through. I know you didn’t ask for it, but some advice… Stay as strong as possible for him (I was a mess, I hate seeing the people I love hurt – don’t we all?!) and be available to talk when he wants to but don’t push anything. FI was in shock for quite awhile, so I just had to be patient until he was ready to talk about it. Sorry for your family’s loss! Hugs!
Post # 11
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I wish you can find healing and peace in whatever form it may come 🙂
Post # 12
Thanks bees! You all are so amazing and help in more ways than you know. We are unsure as to what happened as the toxicology reports won’t be back for a month or two.
Post # 13
@countrylove: *HUGS* My FFIL just passed away 2 weeks ago (he had been battling cancer) and while we were at the wake my FI and FFIL’s best friend decided to plan a fishing trip in FFIL’s honor. We are also planning to watch FFIL’s favorite movie and cook his favorite dinner in rememberance of him on his birthday. I think remembering FFIL in a positive way has really helped my FI through this. My thoughts are with you and your FI’s family.