(Closed) FH broke down… feeling sad :(

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
668 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@SimplyChic11: (((HUGS))))

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

My FH and I went through similar, but in different roles.  I lost my job, and was unemployed for a year and a half. My FH also had a low pay job that pretty much rendered getting a place, impossible.

Is hurt my FH so much to think that he couldn’t provide for ‘us’ and I felt really useless in the relationship, like I was holding him back from succeeding.  I know all too well how that feels.

We too prayed and tried to keep our spirits up, and I want to tell you that God does answer prayers.  I now work a great part time job, and FH is finally making a bit more.  We were able to start looking at places. 

Just know that it is always darkest before dawn.

I’ll keep you and your FH in my prayers. 

Post # 4
Member
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@LadySapphire: Praying does wonders (that’s my own personal experience).  Good to hear that life heading in a better direction for you both : )

 

@SimplyChic11: First off, I commend you for posting this. It’s not always easy to.  The bee is such a good anoymous outlet.  You def have a lot going on and we’re always here to listen.  Although I don’t have exact advice for you on what to do, I did want to tell you that we are always stronger than we think.  And as a couple, the strongness, toughness and faith (and love of course) will get you through. Not only do you need big hugs, your FI does, too.  Make sure you give him a long embrace, remember you are not alone – you can face this together hand in hand.  That will make you stronger as a couple.  Families are always going to do crazy things and expect a lot at times, they don’t always stop to think how it works for the other person.  Can your FI find public transportation? (bus, train?).  As far as the suit he has to wear, is it a rental?  Can he perhaps work something out himself to find some same colored suits on ebay or something?  Or ask around? Check Craigslist? 

I’m sending you big hugs as well, I really hope you feel better soon.

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