(Closed) FH’s CRAZY fam (kind of long!)

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Stop fighting with him. Let him handle his family. If he wants to apologize to his aunt, then let him. Maybe you can tell his family that if they don’t want to travel to your hometown, then maybe you can have another reception there. 

Post # 5
5758 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m an Aunt, and I can’t imagine even one family member who would cancel or move  their wedding if I decided not to go. What kind of power does this woman have anyway? Is she the family matriarch in charge of the family fortune or something? It’s really weird to even hear about, and even MORE weird that his own parents would go along with it. I can’t even grasp the concept, in all honesty.

I wouldn’t give in to their demands just because they’re demanding! Who are they(she) to TELL you where to have your wedding?

Wedding planning is stressful enough without having to deal with the crazies. Hope you can work things out and have exactly what you want,where you want.

Post # 6
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

as hard as this may be, I suggest you just stay out of it and let him deal with his family. Support him and be there for him but let him handle it.

Post # 8
2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@brideatbeach: I would give her some space to calm down. It sounds like she has totally flown off the handle without thinking it through.

Has she behaved like this before?…is this some sort of drama she normally tries to pull to get her way?

No matter what..let your Fiance deal with his family.


Good luck!

Post # 10
7420 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

omg posts like this make want to hug my FH real tight. thanfully -so far at least, I don’t foresee his family going batty like this. 

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