FH's family might get themselves UNinvited! **rant!**

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1167 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

That’s one pushy future family! Seriously some family will NEVER get it. I gave FMIL my guest list for her family just for our engagement party, making sure we had all names correct, and she started adding FIs teenage cousins’ boyfriend and girlfriend, and asking about family I had never heard of! I said no to the extra family, because they won’t be at the wedding, but I said teenagers SOs could come to the ENGAGEMENT, I said it specifically and will stick to my guns come wedding, even though we won’t have a capacity issue, its a matter of stance and its my damn wedding!

just don’t give in, even a little! Don’t even let them think your considering it because that hole just gets bigger and bigger!!

Post # 5
2143 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I have done a lot of uninviting myself…in my head, of course! Lol. Sorry you have to deal with this!

Post # 6
1715 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Ugh I’m sorry. Guest lists suck!!! Right now my grandma is trying to convince me to invite me second cousin’s SEVEN grandchildren all under the age of 10 just becuase she has partial custody of them all.  That would make her household come to a total of 12 people, 12 people from ONE house!!!  Ugh I hope that by some divine intervention the kid’s mothers will get their acts together and regain full custody, because those crazy women will never be invited therefore their awful children will be kept very far away.

Sorry to turn that into a mini vent.  I just totally get where you are coming from, I couldn’t imagine going through all that this close to your wedding, hopefully these are the only crazies you will have to deal with! 

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