(Closed) FH…Why… ::Vent::

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@Ms. Polar Bear: uuuuuuuuugh i’ve so been there.  I want to grab FI by the shoulders and say “just say what you effing mean, don’t lie to me, and don’t walk away from a fight thats already in progress!!”

I’m sorry – i hope he comes home and apologises profusely to you.  Men are so stupid.

Post # 4
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452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

My FI does that crap too!!!  I just rock the bad guy role lol.  I’m pretty stubborn and one I’m in the sweatpants at home, it’s game over.  I ain’t leavin.  I would just be like, you go, I’m ordering pizza! lol.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

@Ms. Polar Bear:snoopy pants sound comfy!  I don’t think they really try to do it either I’m just a planner and once we have decided something I don’t like to change it.  Yea, I’m old.  If you want to scream, scream – at something nearby, besides him! hehe.  So are you going? 🙂

Post # 8
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452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

@Ms. Polar Bear:I understand perfectly what you’re saying, I feel like I have lived that many times lol.  Maybe since his gf is that way he just assumes everyone else’s is too.  I would have reacted the same exact was as you, especially this week!  Haha..but as an outside observer, guys don’t usually make comments with deeper meaning like that, much less pick up on them..

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

@Ms. Polar Bear:No problem! I’m in the same situation you are this week. 🙂  

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

text messaging = fight. Next time you should both be on the phone. I suspect if you 2 had spoken on the phone you wouldn’t have been as irritable as back and forth poor texting as communication.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@vmec: for us, unless its face to face, i always throw the phone across the room.  I’m on my 3rd iPhone screen.  I may have unresolved anger issues. 

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Umm you have communication issues and I’d agree perhaps some anger ones too.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Opps never mind.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@vmec: actually that was me!  And i admitted to my anger issues!

ETA: I also was kidding…i definitely get upset when we can’t resolve our issues face to face but i am playing up 3 unrelated incidents.  I do like to throw my phone across the room but it started as a joke when i was living with roommates and its kind of taken on a life of its own.  I have to curb it now with the iphone, cause I can’t afford to keep having the screen replaced!

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