Post # 1
So yesterday FI was using my laptop as we sat on the couch and I was reading my book. He was writing an email and went to attach a file to it when the folder with the pictures of me wearing my dress popped up! That folder was hidden three times within other folders and he knows not to click on it, but dummy me never got out of it when I used my computer last! So the second I saw it pop up, I threw my hand over the screen, but it was too late! He said he already saw plenty. He didn’t see every last detail but he pretty much had a good idea of my dress. So I was like AHH!!. Of course, it’s not the end of the world and I’m not going to go out and get another dress just because he saw it, but man it’s definitely a bummer. He did say I look beautiful in the dress. So that’s good he likes it! Lol.
Has this happened to anyone else? You’ve hidden all the evidence of your dress well, but forgot to get out of the folder and bam your FI sees it or any other similar situations?
Post # 3
This didnt happen to me, but I’m pretty certain that he wont even remember the dress by the time your wedding rolls around
Post # 4
Don’t worry! 1 – you have quite a while until your wedding, i doubt he will remember details. 2 – The way you look on your wedding day is so completely different from just having the dress on. check out this thread http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/hey-all-you-married-ladiescan-i-see-your-before-and-after
Post # 5
My sister, without thinking, was describing my dress to a friend whem my FI was standing right next to her. He heard everything but forgot everything by the Big Day! Plus, he has no idea what a sweetheart neckline was! On the bright side, it’s awesome that he thought you looked beautiful!
Post # 6
Don’t worry – he’s already forgotten what he saw.
Post # 7
My FI saw my actual dress. I left the bag open and forgot about it until he walked in… oops!
Post # 8
Lol. Yeah, I figured as much that he won’t remember by the time our wedding day rolls around. I’ve actually sort of described the dress to him when I bought it, but of course he has no clue what any of the terms I used means. I’m not worried or anything, but it was just like a “Oh crap!” what a dummy I am for having that folder the last thing opened and not getting out of it moment.
The funny thing is that before I got my dress, I had two printouts of two possible dresses (one which ended up being my dress) that I had left turned over on the dinning room table and he looked at them, but couldn’t remember a thing about them. So this is the second incident of him seeing my dress (first one was on the model). So hopefully there’s no third incident until our first look the day of the wedding!
@risingsun: Lol, oopsie!
Post # 9
I promise you that he will forget. Don’t stress!
Post # 10
He will totally forget. When it comes to things like this men are clueless and don’t remember much.
Post # 11
@Gemstone: @Lyndzo: I totally believe it! I’m sure if I asked him today what he remembers about the dress, he’ll probably be like.. “uhhh it’s white?” (which it isn’t, it’s ivory lol)
Post # 12
ha by the time your wedding day comes around, he will have forgotten what it looked like. I showed my fance, because I wanted to know if he would like it. And he already forgot what I looked like. lol
Post # 13
@s.renea9: Lol, too funny! Men! I guess it’s a good thing in this case that they can’t remember these things.
Post # 14
Dont worry men dont pay attention to details so he’ll forget by the time you get married!
Post # 15
as long as he didn’t see you in it in person – your good. A picture isn’t the end of the world besides i’m sure he didn’t see all the details in a small thumbnail.
Post # 16
Ok, I did this just this past weekend at a wedding. I had just one glass of wine too many and was telling the bride (a friend of my FI) how beautiful she looked and how my dress was so similar and was asking her who the designer was and I looked over and AHH! there was my FI standing right next to me! I thought he was over talking to the groom! Whoops! Oh well, hopefully he has no idea what a empire waistline ballgown with a sweetheart neckline is or he will forget by the time the wedding rolls around 😉 Thankfully he thought you looked beautiful! Now that you know that, focus on knocking his socks off the day of!