- 3 years ago
Regular Bee going anon for this one…
Yesterday I was emailing with FI about honeymoon options. I asked him a few times to look online at a few places and let me know what best interests him to help me narrow down where we’d like to take our honeymoon.
For months now, and yesterday, he keeps telling me:
“Whatever you want babe.”
“I’ll go wherever you want to go.”
“I just want to be with you, I don’t care where we go.”
Ok, how about a cruise. He hates cruises, btw.
“Wouldn’t bother me, whatever you want to do.”
These are all replies from yesterday’s emails. I’ve had enough of these replies and I replied back to him to just forget it, that he’s not making this easy on me and this is a decision that I’d like to make together and if he doesn’t help, we aren’t going on a honeymoon at all because I’m not making all the decisions. Of course, he ignored my email, sent another one after that about some other subject and then left work to work with his dad for a few hours.
When he got home last night, he didn’t even let me know he got home, I said hi to him, he said hi back, ate, logged on the computer to work from home to get a few hours in and proceeded to ignore me the rest of the night. I ended up just going to bed because I was tired of being ignored.
He never ignores me, we never give the silent treatment. I don’t feel I did anything wrong and I don’t know why he’s acting like this towards me. He’s such a sweet person. We never get into arguments, spats or disagree with anything. I’m just frustrated with his answers towards me because he is always trying to make me happy. He’s a selfless person when it comes to me. But I’m really getting sick of his replies “I’ll do whatever you want” UGH! All I want is him to contribute to a decision and let me know his interests and help me make a decision on where to go.