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    notasaint    December 31, 2009   FL

    FI is grouchy as hell, for three days he's been unaffectionate and snapping at me for everything I say and do.  We finally just today picked the place at the park for the ceremony and so it should have been a happy day but I'm here crying and he's ignoring me watching football (which I loathe).

    He blames being grouchy on dieting, which I do understand, but come on!!!!  Thee days of this crap?  I feel totally alone dealing with the wedding and try to make our day memorable. We tried to sit down and talk about it and I thought we had gotten somewhere but then ended up right back to arguing again.  This will be my third night going to bed angry.

    I really don't want my memories surrounding the wedding to be like this. I want to think back and remember being so happy looking forward to our wedding day.  He's not a very expressive person anyway so his lack of visible excitement about the wedding finally got to me in the midst of our argument.  I know he loves me and wants to marry me, just wish I could see it on the outside.

    I'm sure this day will pass and he'll be back to himself eventually.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I'm sorry you feel that way.  My husband isn't very expressive also so it is hard at times when he really isn't visibly excited about things.  I'm sure that he is excited and he probably is just really stressed out and that's why he wants to watch football right now.

     
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    He's most likely just stressed, I'm sure he'll be back to his normal self soon. lets hop!

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    Sorry about your not getting along.

    Why don't you make yourselves both and icecream sunday. It is okay to splurge once in a while and it will make you both feel better without really having to apologise to each other.

     
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    ashleyjane    1/16/2010   Tampa, FL

    I second the ice cream- dessert CAN make you happy:)

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    third the ice cream!! but i'll definitely add how about ice cream in bed to make you feel better?  or you could definitely put on his favorite jersey and your favorite stilettos....

     
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    ashleyjane    1/16/2010   Tampa, FL

    ohhhh ice cream in bed is an even better idea! I hope he gets happier soon, I'm sure he will once he gets hit in the face with the fact that he's taking you as his bride in TWO WEEKS

     

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