FI and I have hit a sex rut!

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@HonoraryNerd:  sorry but I will judge giving head or hand to someone who is driving a car at the time. i don’t care how experienced someone thinks they are at it, it takes a moment of inattention to crash and potentially injure other road users, damage property etc :-/

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

It may be irrelevant to the problem, but it’s still dangerous. Driving with one hand =/= jerking off someone.

I think you need to stop trying to force or pressure sex on him and actually talk to him about this issue. 

Post # 8
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Worker bee

Maybe there is another issue going on that is preventing him from wanting to be intimate. 

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Dude. Don’t fool around while you’re driving. I don’t care how hot it is, that’s just not okay. You put your lives and those of everyone around you at risk. No one deserves to die just because your sex life got boring.

 

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I don’t eat or talk on the phone when I’m driving either. I owe it to myself and the people around me to not be a distracted driver, because the thing about driving is that one small mistake could ruin someone’s life. I don’t care if this is your “vanilla,” it still doesn’t make it okay. I’m about as kinky as they come and I’m not a fan of kink-shaming, but I do NOT condone engaging in any sort of sexual activity that could have negative consequences to non-involved, nonconsenting parties. My original point still stands, and I think that you’re being selfish in insisting that your sex life comes before other peoples’ safety.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Have you asked him about the BO issue that was raised at work? This could be related.

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@HannahGrace:  +1 That was kind of my first thought, too OP.

WHy don’t you sit him down and ask him what’s up?! 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

We’ve told the OP enough times that what she is doing is dangerous. At the end of the day is her call, I hope no one ever gets hurt. :/

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