- 7 years ago
That he added 20 more people to the guest list!! The original best man is getting deployed Monday so they decided to have the bachelor party last night. My FI is a very social person and to our surprise they showed up to pick him up in the largest utility van I’d ever seen and out popped out tons of his old co-workers and high school buddies both female and male. I’m glad they did that, as I know FI had a blast, but unfortunately half of them weren’t actually on the guest list. Like everybody we had to make some really tough decisions, and scramble to make up the budget gap as our guest list quickly grew out of control. So a lot of FI’s good friends that he hadn’t been in constant contact the past couple years were cut.
Guilt aside, the invites are already sent out so I’m not sure what I would do to remedy this etiquette monstrosity in the fist place but second off we can’t afford to until we see what the RSVPs turn into. On top of that one gave me a sweet card and a modest, but thoughtful gift. I also suspect without a doubt FI got drunk and exclaimed they were all invited. DOH