(Closed) FI bachelor party

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: How do you feel about your FI going to a strip club for his bachelor party?
    doesn't matter to you : (38 votes)
    27 %
    fine with it : (27 votes)
    19 %
    it bothers you a little but you will let him go : (26 votes)
    18 %
    it bothers you a lot and dont want him to : (50 votes)
    35 %
  • Post # 3
    1920 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    This has been highly debated before. You could search previous posts. Its really split down the middle between people. Personally, I have no problem with it at all.

    Post # 4
    1222 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I personally could care less. Darling Husband never goes, but if he did it doesn’t matter.

    This is a topic that usually blows up. Should I grab my popcorn now?

    Post # 5
    302 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I’d be fine with it.  I do think it’s a weird tradition to celebrate marrying the person you love by watching other women dance naked… but if he wanted to go, I wouldn’t care.  He doesn’t. 

    Post # 6
    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    my hubby b-party had a private sex show and multiple strippers and what my hubby said to me about his party was that the guy who arranged it arranged it more for himself than my hubby.

    there were 2 groups of guys, one group up front and watching, the rest out the back having a few quite drinks, eating and catching up and i know which group my hubby was in.  i have no problem with them, if a woman does have issues then they need to discuss what is acceptable and what is not and trust that he will honor that agreement


    Post # 8
    7300 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Talk to your man. If you have a problem with it then speak up. Don’t be pissed about it later because you thought he would read your mind. Some women care, some women don’t. Neither is wrong. 

    Post # 9
    14498 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    My FHs friends are the same as eloping’s.  He really wants a poker party, but the friends want to go to the strip clubs.  I know his friends are going to use this as an excuse to go as their wives hate them and they know I don’t care.  I have a feeling it will be both knowing them.

    Post # 11
    3295 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    @CaraMia10: woooooooooooo ive got the fountain soda and skittles! 🙂

    Post # 12
    3758 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    neither of us like strip clubs so he won’t to go to one =)

    Post # 13
    2392 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I need an “other” category – I don’t care, but he does.  He thinks strip clubs are one of the most terrifying, depressing, gross things out there. Which, I mean, I guess is cool because I don’t have to worry about him going to one, but I want to go to one for my bachelorette party and he’s asked me not to.

    The way I see it, if she’s up there dancing around because it’s her job it’s not really my concern.  She’s only interested in them because she’s getting paid… he and his friends would just be one of other possible paycheck.  That’s probably what’s so off-putting about it to my fiance though… he’s really creeped out by the idea of someone pretending to be interested in him for the money.

    Post # 14
    7300 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Mrs.Kennedy: Nope. You will be back here after the party crying to us that he betrayed your trust. Don’t feel like you are being a bridezilla or control freak about it. 

    Are you not a huge fan or not a fan at all. Believe it or not, men listen to the way you say things and will tear your words apart. Not being a huge fan of something means that while you don’t like it, you can tolerate it. 
    Not being a fan at all means you don’t like it at all and won’t budge. 

    You need to talk to him and tell him that you are 100% not okay with it. Do not leave him any room to make a loophole. Don’t feel like you have to let him go because you don’t want to be labeled as his mom or that he’s whipped. 

    Again, if you are not okay with it and you tell him to go, you cannot be pissed when he comes home the next morning with a hangover and smells like a lap dance. 

    Post # 15
    510 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I’m lying in bed with my fiance so I asked him what he thought-

    “I don’t really care for them.  Well, let me put it this way:  do I like seeing naked women?  Of course I do.  Do I like strip clubs?  Not especially”.

    Haha, love the honesty.

    Post # 16
    17 posts
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Everytime my fiance has gone to a strip club (3 times I think….all involving alcohol), he comes home and tells me he would rather have spent the night with me 🙂 It’s almost like a rite of passage for men….telling them they can’t makes them want it more. And to be quite honest, have you ever been to a strip club? Trust me, 90% of the women there are…well…..much less attractive than you 🙂

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