(Closed) FI can’t stand my friend (frienemy)!! sorry long

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2867 posts
Sugar bee

Only you can decide if you want to end this friendship.  There are ways to speed up the process of removing her as a friend, avoiding phone calls, deleting her on facebook, telling her that you’ve been busy and not making plans with her.  Yes it sucks but sometimes it’s easier.  Just make sure you don’t have mutual friends.  As for the wedding, don’t send her an invite.  Just don’t mention the wedding.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Well, she doesn’t sound like much of a friend, and I don’t even have to hear about what stupid thing she did that you are too polite to mention. I’m no expert on ending friendships (understatement), but I think if you tell her that in light of her overwhelmingly negative opinions of your fiance and your relationship, you will not be inviting her to your wedding … well, I would say that would probably end your friendship right there.

Not that it’s likely to be a pleasant conversation, but better get the awkwardness over with now than have this cow raining all over your wedding planning parade.

Post # 6
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445 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Yeah, well, to be honest I would never have the nerve to say something like that either! I’d probably go the weasel route and just start avoiding her, which ultimately would have the same result. 🙂

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