(Closed) FI ditched me for his friends. ugh.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Did you tell him that it upset you? Guys don’t pick up on passive aggressive sometimes…

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I’d be really upset.  He made a promise to you and then he broke it.  I do hope you told him that his actions were hurtful and inconsiderate.  Does he do this often?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

Just saw your response–NOT OKAY.  I think you need to have a really serious talk with him about this.  It’s really selfish behavior and would be a big concern for me.  

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I totally understand your response.  At that point, him staying would have made for a horrible date night, right?  I’d give it some time and then sit and talk to him about it–maybe in a couple of day.  Just tell him how you feel, why you feel that way, and go from there.  I’m sorry you’re having a bummer of a night!  Can you call up a friend and go to dinner?  

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I went through that with my ex of three years.  Didn’t end great.  But he was a scum-bag.  So I’d probably not be too happy if J did it because it’d bring back bad memories.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’d be upset about it too.  Since he’s already gone, take a bubble bath and read a good book for a few hours.  🙂  It’ll at least take your mind off of it for a little bit.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Go to a movie by yourself or something, that’s what I’d do.  I don’t need a date to have a date night!

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

Well, that’s just poopy of him!  I would definitely call a friend and go to dinner, get a drink, head to the mall, or something.  Take your mind off of it now and let him “face the music” in the morning.  Wink

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

Good!!  Enjoy the company and the show!

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