FI dropping girl home after work – would this bother you?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would this bother you?
    Hell yes! : (82 votes)
    14 %
    Of course not! : (406 votes)
    71 %
    Well, kinda... (Please elaborate in post!) : (87 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 3
    844 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Honestly, no. Sometimes a girl from work gives FI a lift home, it doesn’t even faze me.

    Post # 5
    2675 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Madison, WI

    Nope, it wouldn’t bother me at all.

    Post # 6
    1059 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @linnylou_88:  I work at a construction site about 45 minutes from town anywhere. Lots of people vanpool, but I drive my own car. I’d say I give guys I work with rides home 1-2 times a month because they were late and missed their van pool. If I were to get upset from him giving people rides home I’d be a hypocrite.

    Post # 7
    11469 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper

    @linnylou_88:  Meh, no. I would have liked to have met her before but really I wouldn’t care. DH gives lifts to many people in need at work, male and female.

    If it bothers you that you haven’t met her before make it a point to be friendly at the next work function. Sometimes just the mystery of a person makes issues like this a bigger deal than they are really.

    Post # 8
    1582 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    No. FI gives his female coworkers rides home if they’re leaving at the same time and it’s on the way.


    If someone does have a problem with it, I would assume it would have something to do with trusting your partner to be alone in a car with a girl, that may be something to reflect on.

    Post # 9
    2576 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @linnylou_88:  Nope, it wouldn’t bother me at all. I would just think your FI was a nice guy.

    Post # 10
    442 posts
    Helper bee

    Nope. He called you in advance to tell you about it, so there’s nothing to worry about. If it turns in a regular thing, it would be nice for you to meet her, but if it’s just once in a while or a one time thing, no big deal.

    Post # 12
    1582 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @linnylou_88: Hahah sorry if it sounded like I was calling you out or something! I totally realized that what I wrote sounded like I was saying you were uncomfortable with it, which isn’t at all what I meant. Edited for clarity 🙂

    Post # 14
    420 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Once in a bluemoon, okay. Everyday? unless she pays him for the rides. 

    Post # 15
    1867 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    No. I’d appreciate that my husband was a decent human being.

    Post # 16
    8720 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    wouldnt bother me at all.

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