Post # 1
I remember seeing a post about a similar topic a few months ago.
FI just called me to say he’s driving home from work and that he will be dropping his female colleague home first. It’s just the two of them in the car. I’ve not met this girl before.
This doesn’t bother me. I know FI is just being nice and saving the girl having to get a bus home in the dark. He’s nice like that.
But would this bother you?
ETA: I don’t have a problem with it at all. I just thought I’d throw the question out there! 🙂
Post # 3
Honestly, no. Sometimes a girl from work gives FI a lift home, it doesn’t even faze me.
Post # 4
@ZebraPrintMe: Nope wouldn’t bother me.
Post # 5
- Wedding: May 2014 - Madison, WI
Nope, it wouldn’t bother me at all.
Post # 6
@linnylou_88: I work at a construction site about 45 minutes from town anywhere. Lots of people vanpool, but I drive my own car. I’d say I give guys I work with rides home 1-2 times a month because they were late and missed their van pool. If I were to get upset from him giving people rides home I’d be a hypocrite.
Post # 7
@linnylou_88: Meh, no. I would have liked to have met her before but really I wouldn’t care. DH gives lifts to many people in need at work, male and female.
If it bothers you that you haven’t met her before make it a point to be friendly at the next work function. Sometimes just the mystery of a person makes issues like this a bigger deal than they are really.
Post # 8
No. FI gives his female coworkers rides home if they’re leaving at the same time and it’s on the way.
If someone does have a problem with it, I would assume it would have something to do with trusting your partner to be alone in a car with a girl, that may be something to reflect on.
Post # 9
@linnylou_88: Nope, it wouldn’t bother me at all. I would just think your FI was a nice guy.
Post # 10
Nope. He called you in advance to tell you about it, so there’s nothing to worry about. If it turns in a regular thing, it would be nice for you to meet her, but if it’s just once in a while or a one time thing, no big deal.
Post # 11
@MrsRevolutionize: Just to clarify, I don’t mind AT ALL! I just remember a similar post a while ago and saw some mixed responses. I thought it would be interesting to hear what people thought 🙂
Post # 12
@linnylou_88: Hahah sorry if it sounded like I was calling you out or something! I totally realized that what I wrote sounded like I was saying you were uncomfortable with it, which isn’t at all what I meant. Edited for clarity 🙂
Post # 13
@MrsRevolutionize: haha no problem! I saw this thread going downhill pretty fast so I thought I’d clarify! Otherwise I’d get 100 “you have crazy jealousy issues” posts! Lol
Post # 14
Once in a bluemoon, okay. Everyday? unless she pays him for the rides.
Post # 15
No. I’d appreciate that my husband was a decent human being.
Post # 16
wouldnt bother me at all.