FI getting on my nerves today

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2166 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I don’t think I’d call that normal….I mean, my husband has been getting on my nerves today too (or maybe I was just hungry…) but I never regretted marrying him.  How often do you feel that way?

ETA:  Definitely not just hungry…he is really getting to me today.  And to be quite honest, I am being a bitch to him and he really doesn’t deserve it.  I hate blaming PMS for that, but I’m definitely going to today.  😉

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@weddingbee098:  Everyone has one of those days. The real question is how you feel about him underneath it all. When he stops being annoying and hugs you/kisses you/flirts with you, do you snap back to feeling lovey dovey about him or do you stay annoyed for hours?

Post # 5
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3341 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Is this just from today, or most of the time? What did he do to annoy you?

Post # 7
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771 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@weddingbee098:  I had to see what this post is about because my fiancé has been irking my whole world today!!!! Ugh! 

I will def still marry him tho:) just soooo frustrating! 

 

Post # 8
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1500 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

how is it that he’s getting on your nevers? does he says something hurtful?

I dont think it’s normal

EDIT: oh, i see, maybe just get some time for yourself and go out with some friends so you can relax?

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

The bigger question is WHY is he getting on your nerves? I would say feelings like that are common, but I wouldn’t say normal.  Sometimes it’s a mild irritation, other times, it’s the first indications of bigger problems.  

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@weddingbee098:  Mmmm, not being able to communicate can definitely rock the boat a little, as can big surgeries with long recoveries.  It definitely tests things out.  What things can you do to try and releive a little of that stress?  Yoga? Music? Singing loudly in the car?  Screaming loudly in the car?  Taking a hot bath with a glass of wine?  Remember to take some time for self care.  You won’t be able to take care of him if you don’t take care of you first.  And maybe try out some fun ways of communicating…play scrabble, or words with friends.  That way you’re interacting in a way that doesn’t require verbalizing, but you’re still having fun together.

I’m sorry you’re going through this.  It definitely sounds like a tough situation.  :/  

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