Post # 1
FI and I had discussed and AGREED that we would have a small wedding of 50 – 75 guest. Mostly because we are planning to have our wedding at our property in Ga and our house can not accommodate more than 75 guest. Now, I’ve learned that he’s been giving our verbal invites!!!!!! We haven’t even sent out our STD yet and he’s doing verbal invites. I understand that it’s OUR wedding and he has all right to invite guest, but we had already decided on who we would send STD’s and invites to and the people he has invited weren’t previously discussed. Bees, am I wrong for being Upset?
Post # 2
SoNLoveWithHim: has he been explicitly telling people that they are invited? If he’s been saying this to people he’s been casually meeting (ie at the pharmacy, talking to the pharmacist he has had for a few years), then I wouldn’t be worried about the other party actually expecting an invite.
Regardless, he needs to cut it out. Was the guest list decided on by both of you? If so, he had his chance to add who he wanted, and needs to stick by that.
Post # 3
flowercrowns: We agreed on the invite list 2gether. He’s been inviting co-workers, friends n distant relatives. We were discussing the wedding last night n he said we might have to do a set up in the basement, too. I asked why would you have guest in the basement and that’s when he told me that we might have more guest because he has invited about fifteen more people. I told him that he just needs to uninvite them!!!!!