- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
My FI and I both live in the US and our wedding is going to be in Puerto Rico, where we’re both from. From pictures and my mom’s visit, we had pretty much setteled on a venue (Art Museum garden) but didn’t want to put down a deposit until we had gone to see it in person. However I had started planning everything around the venue, I made inspiration boards, planned a set up of the area and even contacted vendors. I haven’t seen it yet but my FI was in the area today and went to take a look in person. He said it was sort of plain and that he didn’t like it and he wouldn’t have the wedding there, period. He then went without me to see another venue (a wine cellar) and fell in love with it and even separated our date with them ( no deposit required).
Even more, after a month of planning everthing together around an outdoor summer wedding, he now says he doesn’t want it to be outdoors!!
I’m really sad about him not liking the museum venue, but even more sad that all my working and dreaming and envisioning of a light and airy day wedding are for nothing.
I want him to be happy with the wedding venue but how do I change my dream wedding style to fit with his?