- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
Hello lovely bee’s
I posted this before, but tried to put it under ’emotional’ now???
Interested in your thoughts about this one
I have recently had to sort out my own issues and as it usually is, when you have an issue girlfriends will talk to you about theirs. I have had a few chats with my friend or at least listened. She has been engaged over a year and her day is coming up but she has a little in-law issue.
Her FI has a Nephew who is a nice guy but his wife (they are both young) has since the day she first met my GF completely snubbed her. Of course it is at family events the most recent being xmas !
Initially I said for her to just be friendly with her, but I don’t think that continuing to be friendly and be received with a cold stare and then turned away from is something that should be allowed to continue. I asked if she told her FI and she has on the last few occassions which were very obvious.
Now her FI always greets this girl with a kiss and a hug and then she literally ignores my friend.
My friend is quite upset that her FI has again allowed this to go unabated. Moreso she is upset that after she walked up and greeted him and they exchanged pleasantries, she didn’t even acknowledge her, but that my friend waited a few minutes while her FI just talked and laughed with others and thinking that he missed it again, asked him if he saw it. He answered ‘yes’.
She is upset that he didn’t even acknowledge to her that he witnessed it and she said to me that had she not asked him, she believes he would not have mentioned it at all.
The next time they will most likely see them will be at her wedding. I agree that she should not have to expect that this person will greet him at the wedding and snub the bride.
I won’t say too much of what I think but rather see what others think.
PS there really is no reason for this. My friend is a very friendly girl. My take: My friend is very attractive and I think it is a case of envy but that is never an excuse.
how and who do you think should handle this situation.
i don’t think it is too much for a bride to expect that she will not be treated like and outsider and snubbed at her own wedding. Hmmmm