- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
So Fiance and I are in a different state than most of our family. I am out here all alone and trying to get this wedding planning done is getting harder every day. Fiance will ask if he can help and so I will give him a project to do – ie spray painting photo frames for our table numbers. It ends up taking him 3 weeks to do because he will sit and play xbox and drink beer on the couch for up to 6 hours in a day! In the meantime, I’ve made 3 banners, his wedding present, and like 3 other projects in one weekend.
It is a constant arguement with us because he procrastinates things so much. I feel like I can only give him one project at a time because he seriously has issues with getting things done. He ended up taking on this really terrible job and he works crazy hours and is unhappy ALL THE TIME. Yet he makes fun of my job by saying “Oh I would give anything to be able to plan stuff like you do all day at work” (My job is way less demanding in the summer) which makes me feel terrible like he thinks he is higher than me or something. If I didn’t have time to plan this damn wedding, which I do all day at work and all night after work, we would be having some bbq in a backyard somewhere. (No offense to anyone having bbqs).
Ugh I’m just so frustrated. I just have noone else to ask for help but him and it is seriously like asking a 6 year old child to help you with a project they do not want to do.
Any bees in the same situation?