FI Posting Misleading Facebook Updates

posted 3 years ago in Technology
Post # 4
Member
3653 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@WeddingBells2014:  I’m sorry I don’t have any advice, but I think he’s being a moron.  He’s aware that he’s making you look bad with those posts, but won’t stop putting them up.

Post # 5
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5228 posts
Bee Keeper

@WeddingBells2014:  that would bug me simply because when people post updates like that it really annoys me. The good news is that rational people understand that Facebook is full of cryptic or passive aggresive status updates and don’t read too much into it.

Post # 6
Member
10500 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

Lyric statuses annoy me, but I’m surprised people who see them take them seriously.  That would bother me too.

I would sit down with him and tell him that if he wants to post things like that, to pick ones that likily wouldn’t affect you.

Post # 7
Member
1309 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

How old is he? Not to be harsh but he sounds like a kid. In my experience grown men don’t behave like this (esp caring so much about a celebrity… feeling “sad” about them and so on). Which celebrity is it? Miley Cyrus? Lady Gaga? Something’s not right.

Post # 8
Member
5373 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

@Magdalena:  +1

This would bug me too, because I hate passive agressive and vague statuses! There’s no need to leave out important information like that – I find people often do it when they need attention.

Post # 10
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739 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Sending a message to a celebrity who was Behaving badly? That is just weird!  Like schizophrenic type weird! 

Post # 11
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10500 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

@WeddingBells2014:  You could just spoil it for him, start commenting with a link to the song or something.

Post # 12
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9158 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

that is annoying as fuck!  My husband doesn’t have facebook, but I think if I were in your shoes, I’d try to make him understand that it’s not funny – it’s actually really embarassing and makes you feel humiliated that a lot of people think you’re being an evil witch and/or breaking up.  My guy has occasionally done something that reflects poorly on me without realizing it, and he has always totally understood and stopped when I show him that perspective.  Even if he kind of disagrees about the seriousness of it, he’ll still stop when it’s clear that it’s serious to ME.

Post # 13
Member
1413 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@WeddingBells2014:  You know who posts statuses like that?  My teenaged cousin.  I find it incredibly annoying but I cut her some slack because she’s 14.  I can’t imagine marrying a guy in his 20s who thinks that’s cool.

Post # 14
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564 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@AB Bride:  +1. 

 

He sounds like an attention h00r. Nip his “mysterious” posts by taking the mystery out of them.

Post # 16
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2679 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Magdalena:  +1 this is very attention seeking behavior and would drive me crazy coming from a grown man. The only people I know who do things like this on Facebook are in middle or high school!

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