(Closed) FI saw my dress….and he HATES it.

posted 7 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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1184 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

well you’re definitely not the only one, because i’ve seen this exact post numerous other times on the bee. i always say that he will love you in the dress on your wedding day and if you love the dress you should keep it. if you’re feeling really uncomfortable about it though and you can switch dresses it could be a good idea, as that nagging feeling will probably only get worse as you closer to the wedding.

Post # 4
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7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@HoneyBear: That’s why I will not be showing my dress to the male. He told me one time he didn’t get the point of wearing heels with jeans because the shoe is covered. lol

Post # 5
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543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

ummmm its your dress! If you love it then wear it! I worried the same thing about mine “what if FI doesnt like it?” and everyone reassured me… all h’ell be looking at is you walking down the aisle he wont care what your wearing. I’d say he’s just a silly boy that doesnt know anything about wedding dresses πŸ™‚

Post # 6
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Did he say why he doesn’t like it?  Honestly, I’ve never heard of a guy say to a bride on their wedding day ‘Your dress is hideous’.  I think a lot of dresses look a lot sadder and depressing when you are trying them on in the store.

Post # 7
Hostess
11299 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@HoneyBear:

Well no they don’t know what they’re talking about. Have you got any pics you can put on here for us bees to see as a reassurance for you if nothing else?

Post # 9
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5154 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I agree with @MissAsB…I didn’t show my fiance’ (now husband) but I bet most guys wouldn’t be able to tell it was the same dress from a picture of you in it at the bridal shop vs. you in it on your wedding day.

If you love it and know it is perfect on you, keep it πŸ™‚ I am sure he’ll love it on the big day!

Post # 10
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237 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think you should wear what you love, and I am sure that he will love whatever you decide to wear. To be honest knowing most FI’s he wont even remember that he made that comment a week from now, and if you swtich your dress over it you will be doing it for no reason…

Post # 11
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693 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Did you purchase it yet?  There a a gazillion dresses out there, if you have not purchased yet -keep looking.  I am sure you can find something that he doesn’t find “hideous”!  … just my 2 cents

Post # 14
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693 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Just saw the pic — I like it πŸ™‚ Looks great on you too!

Post # 15
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1001 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

That dress is SO pretty.  OMG, don’t change a thing.  You look amazing.

I’ve said this before, but I totally don’t get it when guys have opinions on clothing.

Post # 16
Hostess
11299 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@HoneyBear:

I love it on you. Being hones and thinking of what my fiance would say if he saw it on the internet would be that he didn’t like the ruffles – men don’t get things like that. But when your fiance sees you walking the aisle I bet he’d say how beautiful you look.

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