- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
At the very beginning of wedding planning FI and I decided no wedding gifts. The wedding IS our gift! Haha.
But then the more I thought about it the more I want to surprise him with a gift. We’re going to be HM-ing in one of the top golf destinations in the world and he’s a avid golfer. How can I pass up the opportunity to gift him a round of golf? He’ll never ask to golf there because a round is pretty $$$. But I know he will love it!
So here’s my dilemma. Do I tell him that I am giving him a gift? I’m afraid once I tell him I am gifting him something he will find out what it is! I’m horrible at keeping gifts a secret!
On the other hand I don’t want him to feel bad that he did not get me anything. Since technically we did agree no gifts.
What do you say?
Don’t tell him?
If you say tell him when should I tell him in order to leave as little time for me to slip up but him enough time to get me something meaningful if he wished? One month?