FI thinks I'm lying and I'm very upset about it…

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1802 posts
Buzzing bee

@DuckEBee:  I would ask him what his proof is. He probably doesn’t really have any proof. Just tell him again that you didn’t snoop, and then drop it. The more you bring it up the more it’ll sound like you did snoop. If he brings it up just tell him you aren’t talking aout it anymore because it makes you mad that he doesn’t believe you.

Post # 4
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2783 posts
Sugar bee

@DuckEBee:  id just let it go. If you didn’t do it, you didn’t do it ad there’s no way to PROVE you didn’t. 

Post # 5
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3989 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

There’s nothing that makes me more mad than someone accussing me of something I didn’t do.  It’s infuriating!

I don’t really have any advice because once someone is in the mindset it’s hard to get them out.  Good luck!

Post # 6
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4441 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@DuckEBee:  What a weirdo!  Maybe the surprise on your face when you finally get the gift will be proof enough.

Post # 7
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2189 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I would just say “You sound crazy. I did NOT snoop like I said, and If I did I would have told you by now. Stop being weird it’s irritating me. If you think I’m a liar then we have bigger problems we need to talk about than your imaginary snooping.”

Post # 9
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5697 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

@PixelMePretty:  +1 I’d say something like that and express how totally pissed off I was that he was accusing me of something I never did.

Post # 10
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3635 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@DuckEBee:  His chair was warm?!  That’s some crazypants talk right there.  “Sorry babe, you want me to turn down the heat in the house or put a fan on your chair?”

Post # 11
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9533 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I would say that he cna’t possibly have proof because you didn’t snoop and he needs to stop being so accusatory. If he really, seriously, thinks you’re lying then a discussion about honesty and trust is in order. 

Post # 12
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2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

“I didn’t snoop. It’s nice that you did your Valentine’s shopping early, but if it’s going to make you so paranoid that you accuse me of snooping when I’ve told you I haven’t, it’s not really worth it. You are ruining your own surprise for me – I honestly had no clue.”

 

Post # 13
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41 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Tell him you didn’t want anything from Frederick’s of Hollywood anyway! Laughing

 

wait, I just googled frederick’s and they actually have some cute isht nowadays 

Post # 14
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2063 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@CakeyP:  +1

talk about ruining the excitement of the gift. Now you’re just gonna think about him accusing you of lying every time you look at it. 

Post # 16
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5351 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Not going to lie this would piss me off. 

I agree about turning it around on him and saying that the more he continues to accuse you, the more he is ruining the excitment for the pending gift. If he still continues, that I would say something to the tune of “you obviously don’t know me, and apparently we have some trust issues we need to work on.” Hopefully he will get the hint that you are serious and it’s starting to upset you. 

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