Post # 1
For our flowers, Fiance did not have an opinion. At all. I chose a mix of cream ranunculus and garden roses for the bouquets, with ranunculus for the bouts.
Fiance has had a change of heart, and really likes mini calla lilies for the bouts now. I want him to be happy, but I don’t want to use calla lilies at all. Would it be weird to keep the flowers we are now, but to have the guys use calla lilies?
Post # 3
I let my Fiance pick the flowers for the bouts…and he pretty much just picked one he liked in an appropriate color. I see what you mean though about ranunculus and garden roses with calla lilies though, they don’t go super well. But I am not a super huge calla lily fan. I used to be, but then got tired of them. If it makes him that happy, I say let him choose. If he has no idea what you are talking about in a month, I say keep with the ranunculus for the bouts. And they are sooo pretty!
Post # 4
I think the Fiance should be able to pick the bouts. They have to wear it all day and if he really likes the cala lily then go for it.
Post # 5
i think it ought to be his choice. if he is in the same color scheme, then suck up the difference. no one is going to notice but you anyway.
my FH picked the faux flower for the DIY bouts i made for him and his guys. it wasn’t my first choice, but it was in the color scheme, so i went with it. =D
Post # 6
I would say let him have his way, but see what his would look like with something from your bouquet added to bring it together.