- 5 years ago
HI I need some advice please
My fiance and I have only been together for 2 years. He has a female friend, she is one of his best friends. She is also an ex and the former love of his life. She never wanted him and treated him badly, but he still wanted to remain friends.
I try to be okay with this relationship that they have but in truth it does bother me. My fiance lives in a different state and we will be living together in May but he has in the past discussed our relationship issues with her. I told him I didn’t like it…after that it was okay.
A few weeks ago I drove 3 hours to his place and he got done with work and went to bed at 7pm. He works very hard so I figured…let the poor man sleep. We have joint accounts(his idea…his choosing) and I noticed that the night before he had been chatting with her till 2 in the morning. I told him it bothered me that when he is stressed he reaches out to her and I said it bothered me that I drove all the way there and he just slept.
I noticed he is talking to her again late at night….after drinking but he is trying to delete the messages so I won’t see. I obviously need to sit down with him and talk about this. But I don’t know what to do, I am honestly bothered by the communication between them and right now I am so mad that he is drunk chatting her even after I said it bothered me. Advice!!!???? I tried to make this concise hope I didn’t leave anything out.