(Closed) Fiance at bachelor party

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Take a deep breath. Do you trust your man? Do you have any reason to worry? Things will be ok. Hey, your man may not even go.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I can understand that. I tear myself up BIG TIME over these parties. At the end of the day I trust my man and that’s all I can do, trust. Though I do really get it, I really do!! Now that you know about it and if he goes, organise a get together with your girlfriends so your not alone. The night will go by much quicker if your busy doing your own thing and with some great company. Also if it makes you feel better talk with your man about it and set rules like no lap dances.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

OMG right now, sorry I didn’t realise. Sounds like great rules. You’ll be fine.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Awww!!  Sending you lots of sympathy – I am going to be beside myself when my fiance goes on his Buck’s Night (Bachelor Party)… it’s making me sick thinking about it!!!  Haha, My girlfriends said they’re gonna come over and we’ll just drink wine and watch wedding movies till I forget about it!

His friends are just so wild and…single!  GAH.  It’s like 3 months away, I need to chill.. haha!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would rather my FI have gone to see strippers… at least then he wouldn’t have ended up with a broken collar bone 2 weeks before the wedding.  so just think, it could be worse! 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

While I understand how you are feeling, gently, I cringed a bit when I saw you commented on the status regarding it.  My fiance just went to a friend’s bachelor party in Vegas, and one of the guys going had a similar status up, and I remember a snarky comment that one of the girlfriend’s of a guy on the trip put up much to the same tone… when my fiance got home, he said that a lot of the guys had ragged on him about her mercilessly as being a bit controlling.  Now, I am not saying this is happening to you, but this is why I tend to try to keep these feelings to myself and discuss them with my fiance and not let my concerns shown to a group of guys on a public forum.

I think if you trust your fiance and have no reason not to, I wouldn’t worry much about it.  I hope you are feeling better about it today.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@dashwoodgirl:  perhaps such ragging will teach them not to post such things on a public forum

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Woman who takes off her clothes for money or future-mother-of-your-children?  I think you know where his loyalties lie!  Enjoy your girl time!

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

You know how you’re supposed to picture the audience in their underwear when you’re nervous about giving speeches? Maybe try to picture the stippers with LOTS of body hair. Like all over. Really dark hairy strippers with bad teeth. Or no teeth….

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Have you been to Vegas? Even if you aren’t there to see strippers, there are pictures of almost naked women everywhere.

Post # 16
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Newbee

@dashwoodgirl:  That says more about the douchebags her husband is hanging out with than it does about the girlfriend, to be honest.

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