Post # 1
So me and the Fiance have been together for a little over 5 years, getting married in August. I have worked full time for most of that time untill recently when I got laid off and then I started to go to school ant nights from 5-10 every day, which I guess let him have some “free” time. I always complained about me only seeing him for 15 min. because of school and the onlly day we had to our selves was saturday. Anyway I am out of school now and our days are pretty much full with work, wedding errands, and gym. Anyway so the other day he wanted to play video games while we were printing out the invites and I told him why he didnt do it while he was alone and he kinda yelled out Im never alone anymore!! really anoyed but then acted like he was kidding…I can tell he gets more annoyed than ever when I text him too much or when I call him more than usual. So now I try to give him saturdays off lol and I try to not call him or text him and I make pans without him…and then hes trying to call me 24/7 and try to hang out with me! I dont get him! Does he really want me to lay off him a little or is he just being weird?
Post # 3
guys are pretty straight forward – ask him if he wants more alone time or not, b/c he’s been sending you mixed signals. And if he beats around the bush after you ask him nicely and directly.. then he shouldn’t complain! haha
Post # 4
I think he missed the attention he was getting by you, guys are so weird like that sometime.I think a little space apart is a good thing. Especially with the everyday stress of work and wedding planning sometimes I like to be alone and like that FI has school in the evening. It makes me miss him more and vice versa.
Post # 5
i agree with talking to him about it. and i also (for the record) thing alone time is a GOOD thing!! there is something to be said about that whole “absence makes the heart grow fonder” thing. 🙂 I have no problem telling fi to go away so i can miss him!
Post # 6
Hahaha I agree with giving him space plus my sisters have been super clingy since I got engaged so they need me too 😀 He just confuses me! I do talk to him about it and he says its just that sometimes I am just too much (which I totally agree lmao but I cant help it!) Anyway Its not like I need to be with him 24/7 we just have so many errands to run together lately
Post # 7
Maybe he tries to text you on Saturdays because he feels guilty? Honestly, it sounds like you two have a solid relationship, that you two both are considerate of each other, so I’d suggest an honest conversation about it. Come up with the time each of you need together, and separate, and some time that he can do his thing without worrying about how you feel about it (and for you to have the same thing). It sounds like you guys have already made steps in this direction, so some clear communication about it might alleviate any remaining questions.
Post # 8
I think I’ve come to the conclusion guys are weird. Of course we are too sometimes !!