Fiancé Knows Too Much

posted 3 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 2
Member
6279 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

i wouldn’t worry about it. when we were in the wedding planning process, I would tell my now DH about all the crazy stories i read and told him i was glad we had zero drama.

Post # 3
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1779 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

ohnatto:  Haha everytime I talk with my fiance about wedding things and we don’t know the answer he’s always like ‘GO ASK YOUR BEES!!’ He loves it just as much as I do… okay, that’s a lie. I’m obsessed and he’s mildly interested. :p

Post # 4
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4831 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

ohnatto:  Nooo, he’ll never stalk me. I’m not even sure he’d know how. Not too computer savy.

Post # 5
Member
1926 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Haha, my husband snooped on here once after he found out I freaked out about him on here due to crazy pregnancy hormones.

He is fine with me ranting, but I also said some not so nice things about his mom (oops). He was okay with it, and even agreed with me on most of it, but he was not happy about how easy it was to find me… so he asked me change my user name and picture in case someone else decided to snoop. I was happy to accomodate.

He too loves hearing the stories I have for him from this site. 🙂

Post # 6
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1662 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Waldorf Astoria, Chicago

I just refer to this site as a wedding blog I read constantly.  I’m afraid to tell my FI the name of it b/c I don’t want him to get bored one day and check it out, lol!! 

Post # 7
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1400 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

My FI knows my username and HAS stalked me lol, though I’ve also posted anonymously because there are certain things I know he wants kept 100% private, and it’s theoretically possible to identify me from this account. He hasn’t found anything very interesting lol, because I think even when venting it’s important to stay respectful of your partner and his (or her) boundaries.

Post # 8
Member
206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

kellynn323:  same here!!  I call it “my wedding boards” when I tell him about something I’ve read on here.  He has asked “what website is that?” (I assume just conversationally, not like he was trying to look it up) and I gave him a vague “mumblemumble oh just one of the ones I read” haha. 

Post # 9
Hostess
8680 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Ha! I wouldn’t be worried. My SO knows I frequent this website alot.. he kind of compares it to how he frequents gamefaqs. He’ll ask me if there’s anything interesting that’s happened, normally I’ll tell him when I see a post that’s just crazy [like a bride not providing chairs or something for her 8 hour long reception]. And we’ll joke that that’s what we’ll do and what not.

He knows that he’s free to snoop if he feels the need to, I’ve got nothing to hide.

Post # 10
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1662 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Waldorf Astoria, Chicago

 

waterbaby:  I know, I talk about ideas and stuff from the boards all the time to him…I’ve caught mysefl saying wedding bee before and freaked out…but I don’t think he heard it.  I think he only half listens when I talk about the wedding anyways! 

Post # 11
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1230 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

ohnatto:  I’m not worried about being stalked, but for some reason I feel like this is private and something I don’t really want to share with him. He just laughs and kisses my forehead everytime he sees me scrolling through ring pics of looking at someone else’s invitations. 

Post # 12
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2047 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

ohnatto:  Hahah!  I don’t.  My husband knows I’m on here alllll the time. 😉 He says its a “girly” site.

Post # 13
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1582 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

My FI definitely knows about the bee, and probably my user name, but he doesn’t care. Mostly he jokes about me reading “my stories” on the bee. He also changed the shortcut on my brower to “Weddingbeem,” Beemo being the name of our cat, hahahah.

Post # 14
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1701 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

ohnatto:  haha my fiancé knows about I tell him about the crazy story I read in here and I don’t think he has any interest to snoop he said it’s a women site he got ntg to do with it lol 

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