- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
My fiance’s parents are trying to force us to sign a prenup. It goes againts our beliefs and we dont want a label on our relationship but most of all it is againts both of our wills and dont want them dictatiing how to live our lives.
Abit about us. Im 29 Australian, and im a broker with 2 investment properties. My fiance parents are entrepreneur’s, his American, 35 with his name to assets in the U.S, Canada, Asia and Europe, family buisness and large inheritance.
His parents have already judged me before even meeting me. I havent met my IL yet because they wont give me the time of day and this makes me sad that they never gave me a chance. It is clear they think i am only after his money and i understand that they are looking after his best interest. But at the same time i feel this is between us and its noones buissness. Off topic but previous to this they bribed him with money to break up with me. Its so hard to respect them when they are this tasteless.
They have alot of money and assets set aside for him that they want to protect and my fiance wants to give it all up for me. ( Everything that he owns his parents put it under his name and bought for him ) his asking them to take it all back because he wants to prove how much he loves me and for me to prove to them im not after his assets which im not because i worked hard to have what i own.
To us being in a relationship is not about the money and he is going go give up everything for me.. i just dont know if this is the right thing for him to do though. We are definitely not going to sign a prenup but also i care for my fiance and i dont want him to make a big mistake and loose everythingjust to stick to our beliefs.
I dont know what to do, can anyone help me with advice?