Post # 1
OK, this was the cutest thing ever!
Fiance has been teasing me about my wedding anxiety dreams for the last several months.
Well, last night he had one.
He dreamed that it was raining throughout our wedding. We were all huddled under a tiny tent. His parents were late, and we were wearing jeans.
I just smiled when he told me. Welcome to my world, honey!
Did your fiance have wedding anxiety dreams (or did he/she leave that up to you)?!
Post # 3
Not yet, at least not that’s he’s fessed up to!
Post # 4
i think its mostly me at this point!
Post # 5
My fiance dreamed he was bawling like a baby as I walked down the aisle. To him this is anxiety; to me it is cute. 🙂
Post # 6
i had a wedding nightmare. i couldn’t get to the alter. i was walking down the aisle and it was like a labriynth. i was crying. my dad was saying.."laura we’re down here".
Post # 7
@august- oh man that is so stinking cute.
@L breezy- yikes, that one is no fun! I haven’t had one in a while… maybe because the wedding is now so close?
Post # 8
Awww, doctorgirl, I think that’s so sweet! My husband had a dream he was marrying someone else. I found out because he told me the next morning he didn’t want to marry anyone but me, even in his dreams. Awwwww!
Post # 9
He leaves those kind of dreams up to me– so far, anyway! He did have a dream the other night that we had three children, so I don’t think he’s TOO stressed yet (but we’re still over three months out.)
Happy belated birthday, doctorgirl!!!
Post # 10
My husband had a few wedding anxiey dreams, but not as many as me. At one point he dreamt that for some reason, he couldn’t have his friends as his GM. Instead, he had some strangers standing up for him and they didn’t speak English. In the dream, everyone kept telling him not to worry about it.
It was kind of cute when he told me about it. I felt like I was kind of on my own with all the wedding anxiety for a while, so it was good to "share the stress" to speak.
Post # 11
Thanks jhphi! No one at work knew. I felt like I was running around with a secret all day! But I went to get a massage and friends came over with a birthday hat, wine and cupcakes. Successful birthday!
Sorry to hijack my own thread 😉
Mrs. Spring- your honey is such a keeper! That’s really sweet!
Post # 12
I didn’t know it was just your b-day, doctorgirl! Happy birthday!
Post # 13
Happy b-day doctorgirl and wow, your wedding is soon! Hope you’re having fun and staying as calm as possible!
To answer the question, NO my FI doesn’t report having anxiety dreams but I have enough for the both of us. I’ve had a lot about the wedding, that he doesn’t show up or that I get lost and things like that. They are awful but let me know that yes, it is a big step in life and is exciting but also scary! I feel so much better when I wake up in the calm apartment with him snoring and the cats at the foot of the bed.
Post # 14
- Wedding: May 2018 - Coyaba Resort, Montego Bay
So cute 🙂 I had them ALL the time. It was getting to be quite irritating! I know Mr. Q had dreams about the wedding as well, but I can’t remember them. They were usually full of angst though – yikes!
Post # 15
FI and I both have had dreams where one leaves the other at the alter and we both wake up freaked out and upset. It was a little wierd bc they were so close to each other but we both laughed it off.