- 3 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014 - Beach
So I just came back from my bachelorette weekend 3 days ago.
Just a little background: Me and FI just celebrated our 5th year anniversary. We have been engaged for 2 years now. Our wedding is in 18 days (Oh WOW lol).
Just until the last week everything with us was perfect. We both we relaxed, we tackled every problem together and things couldn’t just get better. We were both excited and both super good together.
4 days ago my FI had a probelm at work that is pretty shitty. We talked, i tried to cheer him up, think of solutions and things that might help after a while he was feeling better.
After that I went on my bachelorette for a weekend away. He was okay we didnt talk much at that time but everything was fine.
When i came back he was different. He said he didnt want to talk and that he is just feeling preassured and that when he is ready to talk he will.
I was talking with his sister and she said with all the problems at work he is afraid that he might loose his job right before the wedding or even after we come back from the honeymoon. And that he is just stressed and worried about work and expenses.
I do really understand all that but he just shuts down. He doesn’t want to talk about it and not talk at all and with the wedding coming up i just feel like im doing everything alone and that i could really use his help.
I tried to be there for him several times but he just rejects me and says it will all be over soon.
What do I do?