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posted 11 months ago in Parties
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    MarryMeTiffany    November 30, 2011   Illinois

    My fiancee is 38 never been married or even engaged. He waited till he was ready and with the right person (me) to get engaged/married. He wanted all of this party days to be over and ready to be with 1 person forever. So in saying that my fiancee had some pretty crazy years in the past he has been to Vegas to many times to count went threw a skanky phase :/ did the whole dating stripper thing etc. Sounds bad but atleast its out of his system. None of this happened during our relationship. He was ready to settle down a few years before we met just hadn't found the right woman yet. We have now been together for 2 years engaged for 1 month getting married in 5 months. Now that he's getting married all of his dumb friends that got married young or didn't have a bachelor party are trying to live there fantasy party threw my fiancee. He has expressed more then once he doesn't want anything big he wants to go to dinner then maybe a few drinks but no all nighters and no vegas he's over that. I also DONT want him having a vegas bachelor party. They won't let it go they are even looking at plane tickets and hotels. I just want to be like HELLO isn't this about what he wants? Stop trying to force what you didn't have onto him. Also he has some really skanky male friends that I do not want planning his party. I am even fine with the whole strip club thing as long as the strippers stay at the strip club.

     
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    GirlWithARing    September 5, 2010   Living in NYC, marrying in Philadelphia

    Well if your FI doesn't want a Vegas party, he should be able to tell his friends that (and keep telling them, until they get it). Does he have one friend that he can trust to follow his desire for a more low-key bachelor party? I think guys in a group tend to encourage each other to do stupid stuff. Maybe he can put one trustworthy person in charge of the party and work with him to make sure the plans are okay with him. 

     
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    MarryMeTiffany    November 30, 2011   Illinois

    @GirlWithARing:He's already told them a few times he doesn't want that but they won't let it go. His best friend actually the one I trust the most is the one pushing it so much. He got married 7 years ago at the court house he didn't get a bachelor party so he is trying to live what he would have wanted threw my Fiancee. They just won't let it go.

     

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