- 4 years ago
- Wedding: June 2018
I need some opinions/advice/ a chance to vent. My fiancé suffers with a lot of problems. An eating disorder, anxiety and sexual problems (erectile disfunction) to name a few. For the first two years of our relationship, he lied to me and never told me any of this (we didn’t live together at the time so I didn’t notice there was a problem)
I support him as fully as I can but I don’t know what to do anymore. He refuses therapy or to see a dr as “he has seen them before and they didn’t work.”
And whenever I bring up his problems and tell it to him like it is, he breaks down.
In fact, just a few hours ago I brought up his issues and he ran into the bathroom and “had a panic attack”
I’m sick of tiptoeing around him and don’t know what to do 🙁
He says things like “if you can’t handle it, leave me!” And “you haven’t been supportive.”
I don’t think he understands the frustration i go through.
We’ve been together six years and it’s so hard. I love him but I don’t deserve this. I feel like I’m always on edge as not to bring up his problems and upset him.
I also feel really guilty saying things like “I don’t deserve this.” But I’m so sad 🙁