- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
Okay, this one is one I’m sure plenty of you have dealt with so help if possible!
My fiance is the oldest of three boys, he’s 23, then 19 & 18.
The 19 year old is a picture perfect kid, nice, gets a long with EVERYONE, has the sweetest girlfriend that has offered to help with anything (big plus is she’s our neighbor too) and the two of them accompany us on dates and shopping trips regularly, never had any issues with them.
18 year old on the other hand, is a HAND FULL and his girlfriend is even worse. She’s repeatedly cursed at the 19 year old brother because he simply was relaying information from their parents to them. Whenever my future MIL asks me about our planning, she butts in and says things like “Well I wouldn’t do that for my wedding” I will also add these 2 have been dating for 2 months and are already engaged.
So I’m really torn. I know it irritates the youngest brother that they aren’t included as much but I can’t think of a polite way to say hey, it’s not your fault, it’s your woman’s. HELP!