Fidelity question POLL

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you let your DH sleep with a celebrity or other sexy lady if it was just a one off
    Sure, why not? As long as he comes home to me at the end of the day. : (18 votes)
    9 %
    Hell no! : (168 votes)
    80 %
    Possibly, depends on who it was : (24 votes)
    11 %
    Other, please explain : (1 votes)
    0 %
  • Post # 2
    Member
    4072 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    I think a lot of couples have these celebrity lists. On mine is Hugh Jackman. On DH’s is Natalie Portman. It doesn’t mean anything, and it isn’t insulting to our relationship. And really, I don’t know anyone who takes it seriously.

    And even if someone does take it seriously, so what? Every couple can decide how open or closed their relationship is, and it isn’t for you to judge.

    Post # 3
    Member
    158 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2016

    bowsergirl:  I don’t think many people take that kind of thing seriously.

     

    My man knows about my obsession with Leo D. and Robert Downy Jr. but he would in no way shape or form be ok with me sleeping with one of them if by some chance in heaven the opportunity presented itself. And to be honest, I wouldn’t want to. There are tons of extremely sexy people out there who are not celebrities… What makes them any different? They are just people with lots of money that I unfortunately have to hear about more often than I’d like. 

    Post # 5
    Member
    8425 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    LaPetiote:  I think it depends on the relationship.  My husband and I are really only into each other (we’re weird like that lol), so neither of us have celebrity crushes or anything similar.  However, one of my good friends has an open relationship with her husband, so it’s totally different for them.  I think as long as you are open and honest with your partner, do whatever works for you.

    Post # 6
    Member
    90 posts
    Worker bee

    Open relationships creep me out. Just…no…never.

    Post # 8
    Member
    52 posts
    Worker bee

    JEEZ. I would NOT be okay with that. to me monogamy means monogamy, not just until someone hotter comes along. that would be very hurtful to me. and I would think it’d be hurtful for that woman’s husband too for her to say that she expects to be able to sleep with a really hot guy just because it’s an “opportunity.” TBH, this type of opinion really grosses me out. Sex isn’t an opportunity or something to check off a bucket list. this kind of arrangment would feel cheap and degrading to me.  

    Post # 9
    Member
    405 posts
    Helper bee

    Sounds like she is fine having a bit of an open relationship as long as it is just sex.  I mean, there are plenty of sexy people out there.  

    Post # 11
    Member
    851 posts
    Busy bee

    Relationships mean different things to different people. For my FI and I, choosing to spend our lives together has nothing to do with not sleeping with/dating other people. Both of us have had a number of other partners (both one offs and longer term) and it’s never been a problem for us. I know that doesn’t work for everybody, but it’s what works for us. We aren’t any less committed to each other because we’re non-monoamorous. 

    Post # 12
    Hostess
    8680 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Yeah, but only someone really really really famous. We both picked 2 people that we could sleep with, if given the oppertunity. His were Natalie portman & Katy Perry, mine are Justin Timberlake & ian somerhalder.

    But let’s face it, none of those are ever going to happen, so it’s really nothing to get all worked up over.

     

    Post # 13
    Member
    5432 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

    Neither my FI or I really have serious celebrity crushes that we bring up regularly aha, but I don’t see an issue with it since in most cases it’s just a joke. That being said, I would see any kind of intimacy between my FI and anyone else (celebrity or just super hot chick) as cheating and would not approve. He feels the same way. We’re not into any kind of open relationship.

    Post # 14
    Member
    35 posts
    Newbee

    We each have our free pass lust of celebs.  I think I stand a better chance that him though. But it’s never going to happen. 

    Post # 15
    Member
    1383 posts
    Bumble bee

    LaPetiote:  I would NEVER cheat on my guy………………well…………….unless Richard Armitage threw me down and tied me up.  What’s a girl to do?

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