Post # 1
Hello buzzing bees.
I’m a little blue because after weeks and weeks of S0 looking at me with longing and love and being as romantic as when we first started going out, we had a huge fight yesetrday and things became very chilly. I believe tomorrow might be the BIG day.
The fight was stupid but he became very irritable and cold and I became very emotional and nutty. I composed myself later but he was still pretty distant.
We made up before bed but this fight and last nights chilly reception from him has put a huge damper on my excitement. I really wanted him to be feeling warm and romantic and good about before and on the big day.
He was sweet today but just his normal amount, not especially so, and in that semi-selfish teenage boy way. 🙁 I wish I could get back those sweet dreamy eyes. Now I’m not even excited, just depressed. 🙁
Post # 3
Aww. I’m sorry you went through this. We had the same situation a day before he asked my father’s permission, so it’s possible he’s getting nervous or antsy. Just enjoy your love and TRY not to think about it. 🙂
Post # 4
Aw I’m sorry! Hope things improve quickly!
Post # 5
Aww… I’m sorry hun! I keep checking the boards to see if you’ve posted an update!! 🙂
My best friend and her Fiance got into a humongous argument the day before they got engaged. During which he swore up and down they would not be engaged anytime soon. Oops… haha. Oh well, it worked out, they got engaged, and now it’s a great part of their story!
I reallyreallyreallyreally hope tomorrow’s the day for you!! Good luck!!
Post # 6
Thank you so much piglet and all you ladies. I’m sure it will be okay. I’m also very hormonal pms right now so I’m not at my strongest emotionally. Makes it harder to keep my chin up and stay positive.
He has the day off today and hasn’t contacted me at all really except to say he was having a nice day when I inquired. Oh well.
I’m trying to give him space and just eat chocolate and pamper myself in the interim. I will let you gals know the 411 if there is any. Still a little blue but I’m working through it.
Post # 7
Try not to get your hopes set too high that he’ll propose tomorrow. Not to be mean, but it sucks when you’re expecting something great to happen & it doesn’t & it kinda dampers your day. Also, guys like the element of surprise, so don’t let him know that you’re thinking he’s gonna propose tomorrow. Try not to think about it, keep yourself busy, I know its hard. Happy birthday!! & I hope it happens for you tomorrow thou!!
Post # 8
Don’t worry…if you two are on the road to engagement, then one fight won’t push you off the path. I understand your stress, though. The week before my Fiance proposed, we had a fight too, and it added to my delight and surprise when he did pop the question. It put everything in perspective, and made me feel even more loved, that even though we had conflict, it didn’t make him waver in the more important thing he wanted.
That said, I also agree that you shouldn’t get your hopes up too much for a specific day. Just rest assured that your relationsihp is much bigger than one fight, even the ones that leave a chill lingering.
Post # 9
My fiance and I had a HUGEEEEEEEEEEE fight the night before we got engaged.. I wanted to kick him in his head (as I’m sure he did too lol). But that morning he woke me up at 7am..and proposed to me on a beautiful beach in Costa Rica..and we both couldn’t care less about what happened the night before
Post # 10
Yay!!! Boyfriend or Best Friend is back to being sweetness and light! Must have just needed a day to himself! He told me he did a bunch of birthday prep stuff for me too! No matter what I am gonna have a great birthday just enjoying the sweet day he makes for me!!!!
Thanks for getting me through the blues!!
Post # 11
good to hear! make sure you tell us right away if anything *special* happens tomorrow! and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
Post # 12
The night MY Fiance popped the question I he acted very strang wouldn’t talk to me and wouldn’t make eye contact when I asked why he was being such a grump he just walked away.. come to find out he was just all worked up about what was going to happen just 2 hours later 🙂
Post # 13
It’s your birthday!! Happy birthday and I hope you get a big, shiny, picture worthy birthday present!! 🙂